Always Have a Date: Tips For Keeping Your Life Full Of Great Women

how to hookupWhat to say on online dating sites

They say that dating is a numbers game and they’re mostly right. It is a numbers game, especially when it comes to casual online hookup dating. If you’re wondering how about getting responses on dating sites – what works and what doesn’t, then you should keep reading as I will run down the list of best practices for initiating conversations with girls online.

What to say on online dating sites

1. Make it personal

I don’t mean that you should tell her about mole on your cock. I mean that when you send her an icebreaker message you should tailor it to her specifically. You don’t want to be sending any generic message like: ‘Hey baby. Wanna make out?’ That probably won’t elicit much of a response. Why? Because it’s boring, uninteresting, lacks any meaningful way to respond other than a snarky dismissal, and it’s just too easy.

If she’s on a hookup dating site, she likely gets quite a few messages like that from idiotic men who don’t know what to say all the time. She ignores everyone of them.

What works is something clever like making a cheesy pun out of her name or engaging her profile in some way. You don’t want to sound random or generic. This isn’t middle school. Saying random stuff to girls is the equivalent of throwing dandelions up their skirts or chasing them around with turds you picked up off the ground. Don’t do it.

Icebreakers are tricky. You want to say something clever, witty, and that will be remembered, but you also want to target it specifically to them. We’re women, even if you’re having sex with 10 different girls and you want to make her feel like you’re the only girl in the world at that time. You want to make her feel special. She’ll like that. Trust me. I like that. Even when I know he’s a horny toad.

Ask them questions

If you’re wondering what to say to women online to get them to go out with you, you’re asking the wrong question. You should be asking yourself “how do I get to know this girl better.” Oh I know.. I’ll ask her questions! Not complicated.

Why do questions work so well? They make it easier for us to respond to you and allow us to talk about ourselves. Girls love talking about themselves. Trust me. It’s our favorite topic of conversation. Why do you think we spend hours a day putting on makeup and doing our hair? So we’ll fuck you? Please. We could get you to fuck us even if we were wearing tablecloth. We want all the other girls to talk about how awesome our hair looks and that new dress with those shoes. And then we want the other girls to talk about who we’re fucking and how many guys we’re dating. It really has very little to do with you. Just kidding. Not really.

So the point of all that is, ask us questions about stuff we like because it lets us talk about ourselves and we like that.

If you’re wondering what kind of stuff to ask about. Ask about our favorite food or bands or places we’ve been to. Stuff like that.

If you see we’re fans of a band you like it is not an appropriate time to tell us everything you know about the band. Why? Because you’re talking about yourself. We don’t like that. We want to talk about ourselves. It’s a crappy icebreaker. There will be plenty of time to talk about yourself later. If you want to engage a woman, get her talking about herself.

Dating Icebreakers

Pickup lines usually do not work unless you make fun of yourself after using one. For instance, I had a guy tell me I must be wearing space pants because my ass is out of this world. And I stared at him for like 4 seconds and then he burst out laughing and we fucked.

That only worked because he did not take himself too seriously and the expression on his face was adorable when I was staring at him. Also, none of this is relevant to an online dating site. Saying stupid things like that are better on dating sites if you can incorporate her name or some aspect of her profile into your icebreaker. Why? Because it’s about her. Girls love things that are about them. Trust me.

Oh no! Muh Friendzone!

dating mistakesFriendzoned again

I got news for you. The friendzone isn’t a real thing. Girls fuck their friends all the time. They fuck their friends. They fuck their boyfriends. They fuck each other. They fuck whoever they want. If they’re not fucking you, it’s not because they consider you a friend, it’s because they don’t want to have sex with you. Sometimes girls don’t want to fuck their friends. Sometimes girls don’t want to fuck their boyfriends. Sometimes girls just don’t want to fuck at all. This may have little to nothing to do with you, or it might have everything to do with you.

How to avoid the friendzone

If you want to be sure that a girl will not be your friend, what you might want to think about doing is pestering her to go out with you and then whining about how you’re a nice guy. Girls really hate friends like that. If you do this to every girl you know, then you won’t ever have to worry about being friendzoned again!

The truth of the matter is, just because a girl considers you her friend, doesn’t mean she doesn’t find you attractive, interesting, and fun to be around. If you’re wondering why she’s having sex with someone else, you should also be aware that it probably won’t last forever, but they tend to have some chemistry, obviously, or it would have never happened at all.

Girls have sex with guys they consider just friends all the time. The question is, why isn’t she seeing you as someone she wants to have sex with? The question isn’t why do girls friendzone guys. The question is why aren’t girls looking at you sexually and what can you do get them to do that.

What do guys who sleep around a lot have that you don’t

Well, sex for one. And they’re comfortable having it. For them, it’s not big deal. For guys who don’t get a lot of play, it is a big deal. If a girl just wants to get laid, she wants to have sex with guy who doesn’t think it’s a big deal over the guy who does think sex is a big deal. No brainer, right? Right. Here’s the other thing, just because you’re her friend now and you like her a lot doesn’t mean you’re never going to be together. It just means she has different goals for relationships and you should too.

Why adult dating sites can cure what ails you

Number one, you need to become a guy for whom having sex is no big deal. Signing up for an adult dating site can be just the thing you need. Firstly, it gets your pool of girls outside of your social sphere, which is a good thing. There’s less complications there. You don’t have to worry about hurt feelings or stupid behind the back banter. The best part is, the girls who sign up for these sites are thinking the exact same thing. They don’t want to date in their social circles because of how messy that can get and they’re looking for guys like you who want to do the same thing.

Sometimes being inexperienced isn’t a bad thing. If you let a girl know off the bat that you’re not very experienced it shows vulnerability which will allow her to open up to you and you may just end up hooking up and having a great time.

How to make your adult dating profile awesome

Use pictures of yourself that you really like. Times when you were having fun. The less posed the picture feels, the better off you are. You don’t want to seem like you’re posing because so much of who you are will leak through. The pose is a mask which reveals what it attempts to hide. So choose someone you really like, someone who sees the best in you, make it girl, and ask her to take a picture of you for a dating site. This is also why have girls as friends is not such a bad thing and why whining about the friendzone is so destructive to your relationships. It also gets that girl thinking about you as a potential date. Somewhere in the back of her mind she’s turning that over and reconsidering things with you.

Then you just want to write stuff about what you like and who you are. What moves you? What are you looking for?

As long as you’re natural and you’re comfortable with yourself you will find someone who is stricken by your fancy.

If you’re interested in thinking about this further, check out this article on the friendzone and what it really means.

3 Outfits That Will Put Women In The Mood

sexy outfitsHow to get women in the mood

I want to talk a little about the kinds of clothing that women love to see on a man. You better believe that there are a few outfits that just make a women get so horny and so wild. These outfits are a favorite of mine because they always work. They are sexy items that get women so horny that she is always wanting more and more. Of course because of online dating these days I don’t need to worry about giving more and more to each women. I can give just as much as I want to one woman and then move on. It’s pretty perfect for my kind of personality, and I’ve found a few outfits that make it so easy for me to get casual sex from my online dating profile alone. The outfits that I’m talking about are a biker outfit, a slick businessman outfit, and a casual sailor’s outfit – the kind that men wear on the docks.

I bet that if you give one of these a shot they will make all the difference. I told my good friend to try going on a date in a sailor’s outfit about just recently. He went to the store and picked up the shoes, the nice khaki pants, and of course a smooth polo, and off he went. Let me tell you that they hooked up on the first date, and are still going strong today! He did not even have to update his online dating profile with a sailor’s outfit to see the benefits. Don’t forget that online dating is all about the image of a person, so pay close attention to what you wear. Not to mention that some women just love fantasy and imagining men in fictional scenarios like a biker or a sailor, so playing into those fantasies is just a good idea all round if you want to have casual sex all the time.

Sexy Outfit 1: The Biker

The biker outfit is black leather boots, smooth and tight jeans, a plain white shirt, and a heavy duty leather jacket. For a lot of women there is not a sexier outfit in the world – so get out there and pick some of these items up as soon as possible. Leather boots are my favorite because they just show such a confidence and strength of character. Not only do they seem like it – they actually produce it in me whenever I wear my boots. I like to step heavily in them as I walk down the sidewalk with my date. Every time I wear my leather boots my date comments on them, and says they make a pretty sexy outfit for a guy like me. I can just tell that my boots make women horny, it’s a feeling I have whenever I wear them out on a date.

Obviously when it comes to a jacket there is no sexier outfit than a leather jacket. I have a black one with little rips on the arms and back because I wear it so much. I take it everywhere with me, and when I wear it out on dates the ladies always say I look extremely comfortable in it. That’s the key with these outfits: comfort and style combined into one outfit.

Sexy Outfit 2: Slick Businessman

Nothing screams sexy like a tight suite with a beautiful tie and a smile that is naughty and nice all at once. No women can turn away a man in a suite – it just makes them so horny. You can make it a theme of yours. Be the guy in the suite, and update your online dating profile to match this new level of class in your life. Let me tell you that it will rub off on how you act, what you say, and how you are perceived by those around you. I like to imagine myself as a lawyer who just got off from work and is now pursuing a sexy lady at a restaurant, looking to have some casual sex to take the load off after a long day in the books. Again, ladies love a little bit of fiction and imagination, so play up all your classy notes once and awhile and wear a suite. I have put images of myself in all these three outfits on my online dating profile. THey are three different looks that don’t take much money or time to pull off, and they all get women horny in some way.

Sexy Outfit 3: Sailor

Nothing beats the laid back vibe of a sailor outfit. All you need are a pair of those brown sailor shoes, a nice beige pair of khaki pants, and a few polos and a hat. The casual nature of this outfit will bring ladies to their knees because of how inviting you are. Imagine yourself as a yacht owner who just likes to hang back at a party and shoot the breeze. Life is not too hard and there’s no point trying to hard to figure it all out. Just get into the groove and have a good time, and that will get women horny faster than any other kind of lifestyle.