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Dating Profiles: Are Women As Confident As We Think?

women confidenceWomen are not as confident as they seem

You might be under the impression that women who use online dating know exactly what they want to look like and are confident in themselves. There are a lot of cougar dating sites here in Long Beach, for example, that are full of sexy cougars who seem to have so much confidence. It’s pretty great to see so many high octane women with such great online dating profiles. But have you ever wondered what women think about their own profiles? Have you realized that what women wear is the main factor that will make you attracted to them?

No matter how old a woman is, she will always be self-conscious. I know some young ladies here in Long Beach that are just self-conscious even though they dress like supermodels and are more beautiful than anyone else I know. It comes down to psychology, which is all about self-perception and perceived image of oneself in relation to others. Even on the cougar dating sites I use I can see it happening everywhere. Online dating is all about image and self-perception, which is why it’s important to know what women think about themselves online, what they think about their online dating profiles in particular.

What Women Wear

Clothing ties into branding, self-perception, attitude, even daily mood. Some women like to dress flashy and show themselves on their online dating profiles to be high octane, full of excitement, and just generally badass. Does that mean that they are actually all of those things? Hell no. Think about Kim Kardashian – what would her online dating profile look like if she had one? It would probably be super flashy and full of bravado. As I said, when it comes to online dating that is the norm. But is Kim Kardashian a domineering personality that takes over the room when she walks in? Not at all. Kim is a very friendly and down to earth women that would stop and chat with you about your dog if she saw you on the street. That clashes with her online persona, which is full on badass.

So that’s my example to show you that anyone can look badass online, but most people are not. Most woman identify very strongly with their fashion sense. Here in Long Beach especially, where looks are the most important thing. What women wear is important around here, because it implies if they are feeling serious or full of fun. When it comes to online dating profiles, the same thing is true everywhere, not just in Long Beach. Image is everything when it comes to online dating, and woman think a lot about presenting the most badass version of themselves.

Women are also deeply insecure about their looks. That means that profile pics might change every week or so, as they change up their look. I know a women here in Long Beach who dyes her hair every single week, and then changes her online dating profile picture to match it. In general, woman in online dating have a lot of insecurities about their looks because they know that first impressions are everything, but you still don’t want to be seen as a slut. Or wearing sluty clothing, or anything like that.

What Women Think

This is the second major thing to consider when it comes to online dating. Usually the older the lady the less intense this issue is. For example, there are tons of cougar sites in Long Beach and beyond. On these cougar sites you are only gonna meet badass older women who don’t care what you think about them. It’s pretty nice being around a liberated woman like that, who will cut her hair off and there’s nothing you can do about.

Younger women in the world of online dating are different though. They are very much tied up in worrying about their body, and what people think of them. I have seen a lot of online dating profiles of women that just seem to be totally shy and have no confidence. It’s a complete turn-off, no question. Women from about 19-35 are usually not as confident as we think, even if they are drop-dead sexy. I think the reason for all this anxiety has to do with wanting to please other people and just not get in the way. I find these kinds of traits kind of annoying because you want someone with a bit of spunk and attitude – but definitely a lot of women need to be constantly reminded they are beautiful. It has a lot to do with our image based consumer society and an online dating world that is all about first impressions. If you’re wondering what women think, it’s probably that they are not attractive and will never be able to seduce anyone. Knowing this can come to your advantage though, just as long as you don’t get too pushy or persistent with a women who seem really strong but is actually extremely weak.

3 Outfits That Will Put Women In The Mood

sexy outfitsHow to get women in the mood

I want to talk a little about the kinds of clothing that women love to see on a man. You better believe that there are a few outfits that just make a women get so horny and so wild. These outfits are a favorite of mine because they always work. They are sexy items that get women so horny that she is always wanting more and more. Of course because of online dating these days I don’t need to worry about giving more and more to each women. I can give just as much as I want to one woman and then move on. It’s pretty perfect for my kind of personality, and I’ve found a few outfits that make it so easy for me to get casual sex from my online dating profile alone. The outfits that I’m talking about are a biker outfit, a slick businessman outfit, and a casual sailor’s outfit – the kind that men wear on the docks.

I bet that if you give one of these a shot they will make all the difference. I told my good friend to try going on a date in a sailor’s outfit about just recently. He went to the store and picked up the shoes, the nice khaki pants, and of course a smooth polo, and off he went. Let me tell you that they hooked up on the first date, and are still going strong today! He did not even have to update his online dating profile with a sailor’s outfit to see the benefits. Don’t forget that online dating is all about the image of a person, so pay close attention to what you wear. Not to mention that some women just love fantasy and imagining men in fictional scenarios like a biker or a sailor, so playing into those fantasies is just a good idea all round if you want to have casual sex all the time.

Sexy Outfit 1: The Biker

The biker outfit is black leather boots, smooth and tight jeans, a plain white shirt, and a heavy duty leather jacket. For a lot of women there is not a sexier outfit in the world – so get out there and pick some of these items up as soon as possible. Leather boots are my favorite because they just show such a confidence and strength of character. Not only do they seem like it – they actually produce it in me whenever I wear my boots. I like to step heavily in them as I walk down the sidewalk with my date. Every time I wear my leather boots my date comments on them, and says they make a pretty sexy outfit for a guy like me. I can just tell that my boots make women horny, it’s a feeling I have whenever I wear them out on a date.

Obviously when it comes to a jacket there is no sexier outfit than a leather jacket. I have a black one with little rips on the arms and back because I wear it so much. I take it everywhere with me, and when I wear it out on dates the ladies always say I look extremely comfortable in it. That’s the key with these outfits: comfort and style combined into one outfit.

Sexy Outfit 2: Slick Businessman

Nothing screams sexy like a tight suite with a beautiful tie and a smile that is naughty and nice all at once. No women can turn away a man in a suite – it just makes them so horny. You can make it a theme of yours. Be the guy in the suite, and update your online dating profile to match this new level of class in your life. Let me tell you that it will rub off on how you act, what you say, and how you are perceived by those around you. I like to imagine myself as a lawyer who just got off from work and is now pursuing a sexy lady at a restaurant, looking to have some casual sex to take the load off after a long day in the books. Again, ladies love a little bit of fiction and imagination, so play up all your classy notes once and awhile and wear a suite. I have put images of myself in all these three outfits on my online dating profile. THey are three different looks that don’t take much money or time to pull off, and they all get women horny in some way.

Sexy Outfit 3: Sailor

Nothing beats the laid back vibe of a sailor outfit. All you need are a pair of those brown sailor shoes, a nice beige pair of khaki pants, and a few polos and a hat. The casual nature of this outfit will bring ladies to their knees because of how inviting you are. Imagine yourself as a yacht owner who just likes to hang back at a party and shoot the breeze. Life is not too hard and there’s no point trying to hard to figure it all out. Just get into the groove and have a good time, and that will get women horny faster than any other kind of lifestyle.